This is a wonderful book that discusses multiple attributes or qualities for becoming resilient. There is no doubt that everyone will experience hardships, failures, rejections, and obstacles in their lives. We need certain qualities to help us deal with these hardships, failures, rejections, and obstacles. We can learn from all of these experiences and become successful. I agree that we need social support to help us learn from these experience and overcome obstacles. I also agree that gratitude is what we need to become resilient. We need to be grateful for what we have and not what we don't have. Thinking positively and realistically can help us in so many ways.